We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
National...
- Competition on Worries! - Competition on Worries!
(National Competition on Worries)
This is Kim Hyun Chul, a singer!
(Singer, Kim Hyun Chul)
She's living her glory days ever since her marriage.
- It's Hong Hyun Hee, a comedienne. - Hello, everyone.
You're beautiful! You are!
Oh, my! How sexy!
- This is Stephanie, a singer! - Stephanie!
Stephanie.
They're Lee Dae Hwi and Im Young Min of AB6IX.
(Lee Dae Hwi, Im Young Min)
(You're so handsome.)
- All right. Hyun Chul. - Yes?
It's already been 30 years since your debut.
- 30 years? - It's amazing.
A group of celebrities did a survey.
And Hyun Chul came first place for the ideal type of man to marry.
First place.
Every time she meets me, she's very blunt...
and says, "You should get married soon."
"Goodness, when will you get married?"
- I see. - She wants to marry you.
It was scary.
If there was no one,
- But... - I was going to introduce someone.
How long has it been since you last released your song?
- 13 years. - 13 years?
(Surprised)
- What's the title? - "Loving One Person".
- "Loving One Person". - It sounds like a poem.
(I'm)
(Loving)
(One person)
- Is it over already? - Yes.
- That was quick. - That was.
- I was getting ready to enjoy it. - I know.
I could sing along with him after hearing it for the first time.
I know.
(They agree.)
Hyun Hee, right now is your heyday.
I am very grateful.
Ever since I got married,
I've been receiving countless messages.
"I found hope after watching you."
All that I did was get married.
"If she can get married, then I can."
Yes. Many people liked me.
Previously, they didn't have much interest in me.
But these days, they found out about my new charms.
They think I'm cute and unexpectedly pretty.
They think I'm unexpectedly sexy.
They've found some unexpected charms about me...
- and want to see me more. - I know. You're very charming.
How were your parents when they first met your husband?
After seeing his face, my mom said,
"Thank you so much!"
- Really? - Yes.
She didn't even ask for his name.
She was welcoming a precious guest.
- I'm 33 years old. - Okay.
Can you give me some tips on how to approach men?
Don't do useless things such as having a meal together.
Just say, "If we're not going out, I have no reason to meet you."
(That straightforwardly?)
- I know it's quite extreme. - Right.
- It's shocking. - But it works.
Any tips for those in their 50s?
People in their 50s say that...
they're comfortable living on their own.
(I shouldn't have asked.)
AB6IX is here with us.
They're a newbie idol group.
Dae Hwi is cute and bright.
Do you tend to worry or not?
I'm always surrounded by worries.
When it comes to messages,
- Okay. - I hate short replies.
If they send me just the consonants or the vowels,
- I know. - I want to cut ties with them.
(He wants to cut ties.)
- I need many "haha", hearts, - Hearts.
- and emoticons. - About 2 or 3 "haha"?
- Never. - One "ha" is disgusting.
- It feels like they're smirking. - Really?
- That's why I don't like it. - Then how many?
- 6 or more. - 6 or more?
It should be five or more.
When someone sends me a message,
I call them.
- But... - People don't like it.
It's so uncomfortable...
- for others to receive your call. - Right.
- Exactly. - It's uncomfortable.
We should listen to their new song.
(Cheering)
("BREATHE" by AB6IX)
(They dance very well.)
(Oh, my!)
(Grooving)
You're so good!
(It's paradise with AB6IX.)
(They're in love.)
- Good job. - I like their song.
We've brought three worries with us once again.
Show us the keywords, please.
"A Generous Man".
"A Sleep Stealer".
- "Let's Stop." - "Let's Stop."
"A Generous Man".
Hello, I'm a housewife in my 40s...
who's raising an 11-year-old son and a 7-year-old daughter.
Not a single day goes by that our house is quiet.
"Mom, a new character came out! Buy me one!"
"Mom, I want a new toy."
- "Please buy me one." - Oh, no.
It's because of my kids who keep asking me to buy them new toys.
But there's something even more frustrating.
"Our kids are crying. You should just buy the toys."
"Just buy it. Hey, princess."
"I'll buy it for you, so stop crying."
My husband buys my kids whatever they want...
when they cry.
"No, kids. You shouldn't cry. That's enough."
"No, no! Buy me one!"
Thanks to him, our kids are becoming...
more and more spoiled.
This is what I don't understand the most.
"Honey, you know that the toy our son wants..."
"is a limited edition, so we need to get in line, right?"
"You can do it, right? He wants it so badly."
In the end, I waited in line since 4am to get it.
Are the other families like this too?
I can't do this any longer.
Please help me.
(She wants to stop buying toys.)
(She must be frustrated.)
Those of you with kids...
- Right. - know what this is, right?
- Really? - I had Power Rangers one time.
Since it was very old, it was missing one part.
I was missing a shark-shaped robot.
Someone in Busan said they had it.
So we ended up meeting in Daejeon.
- Seriously? - The moment...
I attached it to the rest of the robot,
I felt this bliss.
- It all came together. - It wasn't for my kids.
It was for me.
- I remember that. - I see.
Please come on out.
(Who is worried about her husband who buys their kids everything?)
(Jeon Yeong)
(Welcome)
Hello, I live in Sejong.
I'm 40 years old, and my name is...
- Your name. - If you think slowly,
you'll remember your name.
She's tense.
Right.
My name is Jeon Yeong.
Jeon Yeong.
(Relax)
Having a husband who buys whatever the kids want...
doesn't seem to be that bad. How is it?
When kids go to marts,
- they cry and whine. - Right.
Some even lie down on the floor.
Right. I tell my kids, "no",
but my husband allows them to have anything they want.
There was a toy that was a limited edition.
At 4am,
- You got in line? - I got in line...
and waited until 10am, only to find out that it was all sold out.
- You couldn't buy one. - The next day, I returned.
- You went back there again? - Yes.
Buying them whatever toys they want...
must be economically difficult.
You're right. Toys these days...
- They're not cheap. - are very expensive.
There's this top blade.
I've bought my kids many.
- It's a top. - Right.
You pull on it.
The limited editions can be...
800 to 1,000 dollars.
(That much for a top?)
- Right. - Why are they so expensive?
- That expensive? - Yes.
There's this box and a toolbox...
- in it. - It's ridiculous.
- Hyun Chul. - When it passes a card,
My goodness.
There's this toy that opens up.
It's divided into several parts.
- You need to buy 5, 6, or 7... - Right.
Of them.
- You need to attach them. - Yes.
Right.
Someone else had...
- Had one? - hoarded some toys,
- and he paid a premium for it. - Right.
It's usually sold for 70 to 80 dollars.
But he bought it for 500 dollars.
Does he spend several hundred dollars every month?
Yes. We spend 400 to 500 dollars on toys every month.
- That's too much. - That's crazy.
How many toys do you have at home?
Two months ago, we moved.
We threw away two-thirds of them.
But still...
- My gosh. - There's still more.
- There are toy cars... - They've covered...
- and dinosaurs. - the floors.
Stepping on them will hurt so much.
My, there's a lot.
Apart from them,
there are four boxes that haven't been opened yet.
We haven't finished unpacking yet.
Why is he so extreme?
I think it's because he doesn't want...
- to hear them cry and whine. - I see.
It's his way of stopping them.
The moment they first start doing that,
you need to be strong and not cave.
Because while they do that, they keep their watch on you.
They only whine and cry when you're around.
But if you turn around and leave,
they stop crying.
- That's right. - They change.
I'm 100-percent sure.
If you're not watching,
- Oh, my. - they actually become embarrassed.
- Even kids feel that. - I know.
- You need to make them feel that. - They stop crying.
The parents cannot cave in from the beginning.
- Have you two talked about this? - Right.
- To find a conclusion. - I did.
I told him that we couldn't afford all this.
"It's too expensive." I did talk to him about it.
But it's of no use, so I don't talk about it anymore.
- No? Because you'll just argue? - You don't talk with each other?
That's why she's here.
I'm sure her husband has his own story to tell.
Hello, sir.
Hello.
(He buys his kids toys whenever they cry and whine.)
Do you understand her worry?
I do understand.
But to be honest, it's difficult for me as well.
Our kids tend to whine and cry...
when we go to a store.
My wife and I cannot win against them.
- I see. - Have you tried what Dong Yeob did?
Have you stepped away from your kids?
My wife and I left our kid.
We told our kid to stay there, and we left. But it was useless.
Our kid was crying there for almost an hour and a half.
(Their kid cried for over an hour.)
They should've disciplined them from the beginning.
- At the beginning... - If they've been buying them...
all along and then suddenly stop, the kids know.
"Don't be ridiculous."
They know.
(Dong Yeob can see through children.)
- That's the second stage. - Yes.
This is what I'm the most curious about.
Is it not financially straining?
Since I'm the only one working, it does cause a strain.
- Right. - It does.
When it's about toys that our kids really want,
I call my mother.
Then she says, "Don't discourage my grandchildren."
- She says that. - I see.
Buying your kids toys so you won't discourage them...
is understandable.
That's true. But sometimes, I think it's my husband...
who wants to buy the toys.
- Goodness. - Buy what?
After we buy a new toy,
my kids would cry and tell him to give it to them.
- There's a reason why they cry. - But he says he'll do it first.
He plays with it first?
I think she's mistaken about this.
The only toy I played with was their mini-drone.
I do play with that from time to time.
- I play with that at times. - You are guilty.
Drones are fun to play with.
It's not just about toys.
Since he wanted to go fishing with our kids,
we have more than a dozen fishing rods.
- What? - What?
He also wanted to ride bicycles with our son,
- so he paid 500 to 600 for it. - Bicycles are expensive.
- And... - But if he does do those things...
- Does he? - Right.
He went fishing twice so far.
He hasn't gone ever again.
How about you?
- Is there anything you want? - No, there isn't.
At least I should save up.
- That's heartbreaking. - I know.
Look at her. She hasn't dyed her hair in ages.
It's...
(Everyone failed to notice it.)
- I was... - I think it's been over a year.
Bothered by that too.
- It's been over a year. - It's...
It's been well over a year.
She's been saving up for her family.
Do you not feel guilty when you look at her hair?
Do you not?
(She hasn't cut her hair in ages.)
- How do you feel about this? - You're too much!
(I'm sorry, honey.)
Are there times when your husband feels like a kid...
and is immature?
Yes. He is three years younger.
(He's younger than her.)
Three years younger?
When I was pregnant with my son,
- I asked him for help. - It's difficult.
You're not special.
He meant that there are other pregnant women.
Right. Everyone else gets pregnant,
so he didn't understand why I was the only one struggling.
Why would you say that garbage?
- It's so upsetting to hear. - All women suffer.
Even as of now, I'm pretty much raising them on my own.
- Does he not help? - When he comes home,
he plays games until 1am or 2am.
When we were newly-weds, he bought items...
for almost 800 to 1,000 dollars each.
- That's how you beat the bosses. - Right.
- How about when dating? - Back then,
- seeing him act like a kid... - Right.
- She must've liked it. - must've made her want...
to take care of him.
He had never shown that side to me.
- Really? - Yes.
- My gosh. - That's freaky.
- It's a marriage fraud. - It is.
What did you say?
She's a victim of a marriage fraud.
(He's accused of being a fraud.)
Why did you say that she wasn't any special for being pregnant?
When she was pregnant with our first kid,
my father had passed away.
- Before she gave birth? - Right.
So I was greatly affected...
- psychologically. - Right.
I acted out like that because I was out of my mind.
Do you regret it and feel sorry towards her?
Of course, I do.
When our kid was seven years old,
she really craved apples.
But back then, I wasn't working.
Since I didn't have much money...
I was...
(He still feels sorry after many years.)
(It must've been rough for both of them.)
It still breaks my heart to think about it.
I wasn't able to buy my kids any apples...
or my wife anything she craved when she was pregnant.
- Right. - So that's why.
You're trying to buy more for them now.
[VIU Ver] E415 Hello Counselor "The Need to Communicate" -♥ Ruo Xi ♥-
Does this happen too?
Since he buys them toys all the time,
do they like him more, and does that make you feel disappointed?
I actually told them to play with their dad,
but they didn't want to.
- After receiving all those toys? - Yes.
They pretend like they didn't get anything from him.
He doesn't chat with them.
They don't like him because he only plays games and gets mad.
Even when I want to play with them,
they're busy with their phones.
Are you saying you played games because they were on their phones?
- That's not what I meant. - You are making an excuse.
It seemed like you were making an excuse.
(He only makes excuses.)
Let's talk with their kids.
- Where are they? - Are they here?
(Where are they?)
(There's a lady.)
- No, she's not the daughter. - She startled me.
- My gosh! - I thought it was their daughter.
- Goodness! - I really did.
I was so startled.
I thought her daughter was so mature-looking.
- How pretty. - She is so adorable.
- Goodness. - They're so cute.
- He's 11, and she's 7. - Yes.
- How pretty. - They're so cute.
- What's your name? - He looks like his dad.
Yoon Do Kyung.
Do Kyung, I see.
- He looks like his dad. - He does.
Dae Hwi is the closest in age to him.
(19 years versus 11 years)
When you ask your dad to buy you the toys,
does he usually buy them for you?
(Pondering)
I'm not sure.
Dae Hwi.
- Dae Hwi. - He doesn't know.
- Dae Hwi... Wait. - He is over there.
- Yes, I'm here. - His name is Do Kyung.
- He's Do Kyung. - Right.
(I'm Do Kyung.)
Does your dad play with you often?
No.
(He gives a firm answer.)
- He's clear. - He is.
- He answered immediately. - I know.
- He wasn't sure about the others. - Right.
What does he do after returning from work?
He plays games.
How do you feel when he plays games?
That he's addicted to it.
- Addicted? - That he's addicted?
(That he's addicted to it.)
(They're shocked by his choice of words.)
- Do you think he's addicted? - He's addicted.
(He can't believe it.)
- That's not a word a kid uses. - Right.
- They don't use that word. - Right.
What do you want to do with him?
- Board games. - Board games?
- That's fun. - Have you never done it?
- No. - Not even once?
Not once?
(His dad has made a mistake.)
Do you like that he buys you toys?
I'm not sure.
- She doesn't know either. - She doesn't know.
- Did they plan this out beforehand? - I know.
They both said the same thing.
Why did you say that you didn't like your dad?
Wait. Look at her facial expression.
"Mom told them about that?"
- Look at her face. - It was her privacy.
Do you wish your dad played with you more?
- Yes. - Doing what?
Board games.
- Board games. - I see.
- Why didn't you play it with them? - Don't just buy toys for them.
I know.
You spent money on your games.
There's another issue.
Our disciplining methods are different.
- How are they different? - There's more.
For example, our son peed on...
- his pants. - Okay.
For me, I'd ask him why he did that...
and if there was anyone around him.
But my husband gets mad first thing.
It's obvious that another kid made the mistake,
but my husband only scolds our son.
- In front of his friend? - Yes.
So that's why even though he buys them toys,
- They're scared of him. - they're afraid.
(It's understandable.)
Professors or psychologists...
who appear on television...
can talk with children like that.
But ordinary people can't do that.
When you see two kids fighting, you can't help but shout.
No, no. You're wrong about that.
So what you're saying is, apart from child experts,
- Everyone else. - everyone else tend to shout first?
- Not at all. - Also...
(What should I do?)
My father is very short-fused.
He used to hit me when I was young.
But I still liked him...
- because he rewarded me afterwards. - Right.
- Did he play with you too? - Yes.
- He talked a lot with me. - I see.
So I think instead of rewarding them with toys,
you should reward them the way they need you to.
He should do what they want.
(But)
When Young Min was talking,
the father tried to hold his daughter's hand.
But she refused.
- I was startled. - I saw it too.
She feels awkward and doesn't like it.
Because... Look. Did you see that?
She turned away.
(She refuses coldheartedly.)
- Even now. - She let go once again.
She did it again.
"You want to hold my hand now that we're in front of cameras?"
"Why are you doing this? You never do this."
Does your husband get angry especially with your son?
Yes. Because of that,
our son is having mental problems.
He's a little kid. He has mental problems?
We talked to a psychologist,
and our son's stress level is reaching its maximum.
- My goodness. - Oh, my.
Things like, "Be nice to your little sister."
Let's say our kids have a fight.
It's clearly our daughter's fault.
My husband tells our daughter,
"You shouldn't do this to your brother."
But to our son, he yells, "Don't fight with your sister!"
- Only to your son? - Yes.
- Only to the boy. - Yes.
Our son keeps saying he wishes he had no sister.
Seriously.
He did a psychological test at school.
He was told to draw a house.
He drew his little sister huge.
(He drew his little sister huge.)
He didn't draw his dad at all.
He didn't?
(He didn't draw his dad at all.)
His sister looks big and important because Dad loves her.
Did you hear about his drawing?
I did,
but I didn't think too much about it.
- How couldn't you? - He didn't draw you at all.
Wasn't it shocking that he didn't draw you?
I thought things would get better.
I thought it would move on.
I didn't take it too seriously.
(Something has to be done.)
Do you remember your drawing?
Yes.
Why didn't you draw your dad?
It was a mistake.
- A "mistake"? - A "mistake"?
- It was a mistake. - A "mistake"?
(It was?)
- He's clever. - He's smart.
- He's careful. - He's clever.
It was a mistake?
Then he should be forgiven.
Can you keep holding your microphone?
You keep it.
He keeps giving his microphone to his sister.
(It's true.)
(He gives his microphone to his sister.)
He's clever.
(Even after being told to keep it, )
(he gives it to his sister.)
Do Kyung is handsome. Do Kyung.
- You're handsome. - Be confident.
You're really handsome.
You look better than your dad.
- You look handsome. - Do Kyung.
You're popular among other kids, right?
(But...)
- He doesn't have much confidence. - I'm trying to say...
(I feel sorry for him.)
What bothers you the most?
What frustrates you?
Being hit.
- "Being hit"? - By who?
- Who hits you? - Your dad?
My sister.
- Your sister? - Your sister?
(My sister)
Is that why you said you wish you had no sister?
Yes.
Let's say your daughter is...
hitting your son. What would you do?
Before, I told my son to let it go.
Because it doesn't hurt so much.
- "Because you're her big brother"? - "Because you're her big brother"?
I said that too.
Also, I wanted him to toughen up because he's a boy.
That's why I've been stricter with him.
The problem is,
you're not being consistent.
When you actually need to scold them,
- He doesn't. - you don't.
And then you suddenly lash out.
You cane him.
Your son must have no idea...
what's right and what's wrong.
He must be so confused.
(No wonder his son can't tell what's right and what's wrong.)
We have an expert opinion...
on the son's psychological state.
"He was used to..."
"having his desires met all the time."
"When his little sister stole attention from him,"
"he must have felt more frustrated..."
"than he normally would."
"The family needs to take the right steps."
That's what the expert said.
When a family has problems,
they need to talk.
Mom and Dad need to talk and understand each other first.
They should come to an agreement...
- regarding how to raise their kids. - Of course.
Say something to your husband before we wrap up.
I want you to be more determined with the kids when you need to.
Don't get angry with our son too often.
I know you're tired, but play with them more often.
All right.
We've been through a lot...
together so far.
There are many things I've done wrong,
and there are many things I'd like to apologize for.
I know it's hard living in an unfamiliar city.
I'll try to be nicer to our kids...
and you.
Thank you so much. And I'm sorry.
(Thank you so much. And I'm sorry.)
(His heartfelt apology makes his wife cry.)
(Why are the grown-ups crying?)
I haven't expressed it,
but I really love you.
(I really love you.)
I know it wasn't easy to decide to be on this show.
Thank you. It was a good idea.
I love you.
(I love you.)
You should say it more often.
(I hope we'll be happy.)
Do Kyung and Seo Yun.
When you want something,
instead of crying and throwing a tantrum...
Ask this man.
Do that.
(I'll get in touch with you.)
Let's start from Hyun Chul.
If you think it's a worry, press "O".
- It's definitely a worry. - Seriously.
I pressed "O".
Who else pressed the button?
Who got impatient?
Someone pressed the button, so I did it too.
- Someone pressed the button. - I did.
I did.
- 1 by 1. - Please.
- Wait for your turn. - Please.
I can see her husband is a person you can have a conversation with.
- I don't think it's a worry. - It's not a worry.
Her husband seems to be willing to change.
He is willing to change,
- but I don't think it'll be easy. - Right.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
Please show us the result.
(The result)
"A Generous Man". Out of 200,
- how many votes did they get? - 36...
It's 141.
It's a lot.
"A Sleep Stealer".
Hello.
I'm a woman in my 40s, who can't sleep because of her son.
Let me tell you about my 21-year-old son.
He is as handsome as an idol singer.
He is so smart that he is a member of Mensa.
- He's perfect. - You know what Mensa is, right?
But these days, he won't come out of his room.
- Is he studying? - Is he studying?
You might think that.
(Knocking)
"Son, let me clean your room."
"Get out right now!"
Her son...
He slams...
Are you sure you're not her husband?
He's not my husband. He's my son.
- Yes. - Try to look cute.
(I feel sorry.)
"Son, did you eat?"
"Gosh, I can't talk right now."
"I'm broadcasting right now."
- Broadcast? - "What do you mean?" Oh, my.
Are you wondering what he's doing?
My son is an independent game broadcaster.
He must be a BJ.
I don't know why he has to broadcast at night.
The noise from his computer keeps everyone awake.
"No! There you go!"
"Son, will you please be quiet? We need to sleep."
My son's college grades are now...
F, F, and F.
(He's a member of Mensa.)
"I've been thinking."
"What if I drop out of college?"
What should I do with him?
Please help him change.
That's it.
Many people broadcast these days.
I saw her son's face.
He's really handsome.
Today...
- And... - You're married.
Wake up.
You're married.
When I'm working, I forget about my husband.
- I forget about Jason. - I see.
- I need to focus on my work. - I see.
What do you think of the story?
I want to broadcast too, actually.
Are you interested in a specific topic?
I'm interested in traveling.
- Nice. It suits you. - Everyone dreams about it.
I am interested.
I don't really understand why it's a problem.
Only a few people become successful game broadcasters.
- That's right. - That's right.
It's not easy...
- to become successful. - It's too...
Let's meet the mom and talk to her.
Please come out!
(Who is worried about her son's game broadcasting?)
(Choi Myung Ah)
Welcome.
Tell us about your son's obsession with games.
He started broadcasting last year.
On YouTube and...
AfreecaTV...
You said the real names.
You said the names.
Afreeca...
You said the names.
- You said the real names. - Why did you say...
He has days and nights mixed up.
He broadcasts from around 6pm...
to 6 or 7am the next day.
Oh, my.
- For 12 hours on average. - 12 hours?
Yes, 12 hours every day.
He's stuck in his room?
- He never comes out of his room. - Oh, my.
That's why I'm here today.
Does he have viewers?
Subscribers...
- Does he have subscribers? - He has about 1,500 subscribers.
- 1,500? - He has 1,500 subscribers,
and you still hate it so much?
The reason why I hate it is...
because it causes the other family members trouble.
When he gets worked up,
he suddenly shouts, "To the right! To the right!"
It keeps us awake.
He's a college student.
- When does he go to classes? - What about his classes?
Last year,
he probably missed a lot of his classes.
He failed in 3 subjects out of 6 subjects.
So he was placed on academic probation.
He failed in three subjects?
Yes. After that,
I tried to make a compromise with my son.
I told him to attend his classes, at least.
- To meet the minimum attendance. - That's right.
So I gave him my car.
- What? - He said it was uncomfortable...
to go to school because he had to transfer to another bus,
- and it took three hours in total. - He made excuses.
Yes. That's why...
- If you gave him his car... - His mother...
- gave him her car. - She's unbelievable.
Does he attend his classes now?
I can't confirm that.
I'll find out when I see his report card.
- It hasn't come out yet? - Not yet.
So does your son stay in his room all the time?
Yes. During his school breaks, he stays in there for 2 or 3 weeks.
Except when he goes to the bathroom...
or he needs something like that,
all he does is sleep and play video games.
That's how he lived.
- That's a big problem. - So...
I tiptoe around him when I go into his room.
When I come home after work,
I do laundry, fold the clothes,
and put them in each one's room.
But my son complains saying it's rude of me to barge in his room.
Also, he doesn't eat anything...
until he takes a break, so he lost 10kg.
He weighs 57kg.
He's too busy with his broadcast to eat?
He has become physically very weak.
- He's not in good shape. - He's too skinny.
I feel bad for him.
So I'm trying to make sure he eats well.
- I put a few dishes on a big plate. - Do you bring him food?
- Like a buffet? - Yes. I give him food like that.
- That looks great. - Oh, my.
- Like this? - It has all of the nutrients.
That's spicy noodles.
That's right. He likes it.
She placed food so nicely.
- My goodness. - It looks so good.
- That's tonkatsu. - And stir-fried potato.
- That looks great. - My goodness.
Fruits too.
- You prepare meat for every meal. - Yes.
- Meat has essential nutrients. - Right.
- I feed him beef twice a week. - It looks delicious.
My goodness.
Are you saying he lost 10kg while eating food like this?
He eats only one meal a day, and he never exercises.
- He eats irregularly. - That's right.
- He eats a lot for a meal. - Yes.
Does he even finish that much?
Yes, he finishes it all.
- He must be hungry. - He eats well, at least.
He gets hungry.
I have something I want to ask you about.
Did you come on the show...
because you want your son to quit his broadcast?
It's not that I hate the idea of...
broadcasting online.
However, he doesn't do well at school...
- or do what he should do. - That's right.
Also, he missed the day while playing a game.
He missed the application deadline for military enlistment.
- Military enlistment? - Yes.
So he didn't delay it so he could play games for longer,
- but he missed the deadline... - Only my son knows the truth.
Let's meet with her handsome son...
who is a member of Mensa.
Hello.
(Curious)
He is as handsome as an idol singer.
(He has a handsome face like an idol star.)
He is so smart that he is a member of Mensa.
(He also has a smart brain.)
(He will be revealed now!)
Hello.
(His handsome face makes everyone in the studio happy.)
Hello.
(Cheering)
(Screaming)
(She sends finger hearts to him.)
- Hyun Hee, keep it together. - You see...
Think of Jason.
- I know, but look. - You should think of Jason.
He is as handsome as an idol star.
Excuse me.
She said you had lost 10kg. Can you stand up for us?
- I feel like I became his fan. - He's so skinny.
Turn around just once.
(He looks so slim at a glance.)
- He looks fabulous. - He's so handsome.
(She has definitely fallen for him.)
Don't you think you got too excited?
Ma'am, you were right.
He's very handsome.
You have heard your mother. What do you think?
Do you think it's a worry?
I do think it's a worry.
But I hope she can trust me more.
You should've behaved better so she could trust you.
You missed your classes and failed in three subjects.
Because I broadcast...
from late night to early morning,
I always tell myself to take a short nap,
but I wake up after my classes ended.
I missed a lot of classes like that.
- Right. - Do you really want to...
drop out of college...
and only do game broadcasting?
Yes. I want to drop out of school right now.
- Gosh. - But my parents are against it.
So I think they will acknowledge me if I increase subscribers...
before dropping out of school.
So I'm working very hard.
- He's working hard. - How many subscribers do you have?
I have between 20 and 30 subscribers for the live streaming.
- The more, the better. - To get their acknowledgement,
- I need 10,000 subscribers. - More than 10,000 subscribers.
Have you always dreamed of becoming a BJ?
I always wanted to work in the game industry.
- You did? - Yes.
Since both of my parents have a job,
I was alone at home for most of the time,
so video games have been my only friends.
I became addicted to video games.
When I was in middle school, I spent up to 18 hours a day...
on playing games...
during school breaks.
He's been playing games for a long time.
- It can cause back problems. - Since I played games a lot,
naturally, I came to consider working in the game industry.
I had a crush on a Japanese girl.
- What? - I had a crush on a Japanese girl.
- A Japanese girl? - At my school.
- I see. - Oh, at your school?
So I learned Japanese.
- Oh, that's why. - I confessed my love in Japanese.
- Then... - "I love you."
- "I love you"? - But she rejected me.
- She rejected you? - My goodness.
- I got rejected by her. - I see.
- How could she reject him? - Why?
- Why did she reject you? - Exactly.
She said I made her uncomfortable.
I guess he was heartbroken.
I was heartbroken, so I tried to...
figure out how to heal...
my broken heart.
I decided to start broadcasting to develop myself.
You wouldn't have done game broadcasting if she accepted you.
In that case, I would've broadcast with her as a couple.
(I would've broadcast with her!)
- He must've wanted to do it. - Couple broadcast.
How much did you like her?
I gave her everything I had.
(I gave her everything I had.)
- He gave her everything he had. - Don't say it in front of your mom.
How dare you say such a thing in front of your mom?
You exist now because your mother gave birth to you!
- Your mother gave birth to you. - How could you say that?
Ma'am, how do you feel?
- There's no point in raising a son. - Exactly.
- Tell us how you feel honestly. - You made me angry.
If you like her so much to give her everything you had,
why did you give up on her after asking her out only once?
- You should've asked her out again. - I tried twice.
(I tried twice!)
- He tried twice. - I see.
- He asked her out twice. - And she rejected you twice?
What did you give her at the second time?
- Did you give her your all? - I wrote a letter for her.
But she got a boyfriend the day before I confessed my love.
Then she...
Then he must have asked her out without knowing...
- she had feelings for someone else. - That's possible.
I didn't know that until today.
I am a little taken aback.
It seems to me...
- that you cause your family harm. - He causes them harm.
- They can't sleep because of you. - That's right.
What do you think of that?
I try to keep it down and refrain myself.
But I go to the battlefield wearing earphones.
(I go to the battlefield wearing earphones!)
- He calls it a battlefield. - Because of the gun sound,
I can't control the volume of my voice.
And when I try to keep it down, the viewers complain...
that I'm too quiet,
I'm not giving enough reactions, and I'm boring.
I'm in a difficult position between the two.
(He's in a difficult position too.)
- But... - If you are 21,
you're supposed to go around and meet a lot of people...
- Right. - at your age.
Wouldn't you mind staying at home all the time?
Doesn't it frustrate you at all?
I don't feel frustrated at all.
Don't you think your mother must be sad...
when you throw a tantrum because she comes into your room?
Whenever my parents come into my room,
they never leave quietly.
They always nag at me before leaving.
"Your room is so messy. Is your room a dumpster or what?"
"Your room smells like a widower's room."
They say things like this.
Also, one day,
My mom and dad had a fight.
Since I was broadcasting, so the viewers heard...
them arguing in real time.
(He broadcast their fight live in real time.)
- That can be great content. - The viewers must've liked it.
- They must've enjoyed it. - I think it'd be great content.
I get into trouble when things like that happen.
- I just want to talk to him. - Of course.
You know that he's broadcasting. Do you speak quietly?
I speak quietly, at least.
"Your room smells like a widower's room."
(Your room smells like a widower's room.)
Do you want to appear...
on his broadcast?
Could you have tried to do so?
He comes out to the living room from time to time.
He goes back to his room after about five minutes.
- At that time... - Five minutes.
I keep looking at his face like this until he goes back to his room.
I guess it makes my son feel embarrassed.
But that's the only time I can...
- see his face. - You don't.
I get to see his face or talk to him...
for 30 minutes in total in a month.
- That's it. - My goodness.
So when he comes out of his room, that's my only chance...
- to see my son. - Ma'am,
you feel like video games took your son away from you, right?
- That's right. - Yes.
So I look at him while I can.
(It means a lot to her.)
- You save his face in your heart. - Yes.
She can't see her son's face even when he's at home.
Not long ago, his younger brother asked him to eat out...
with us all to have some ribs.
He told us to make plans in advance.
He gets angry if we ask him to do something that wasn't planned...
because of his online broadcast.
We canceled the dinner in the end.
- Oh, no. - He used to...
take such good care of his brother. He was an attentive brother.
He's addicted to video games.
He doesn't take care of his brother.
Is the boy next to him his younger brother?
- Yes. - He looks cute.
- He looks so cute. - He's cute.
- His eyes look sleepy. - That's right.
Let's meet his younger brother. Hello.
- Hello. - Oh, my.
(He has dark circles under his eyes.)
- She waved at him. - You're not sleepy, are you?
I'm a little sleepy.
- He's cute. - He's a student.
It looks as if you were the one who plays video games all night long.
- That's right. - He looks tired.
- Right? - It's because he looks tired.
Do you understand why your mother is worried?
I fully understand her.
Even though my room is at the back of the house,
when my brother gets excited while playing a game, I can hear him.
Does your brother interfere with your study and life?
I wake up twice while sleeping every two weeks because of him.
(He wakes up twice while sleeping every two weeks.)
- Twice every 2 weeks? - Every 2 weeks?
(That's it?)
I guess you sleep quite deeply.
He has accurate data.
- Exactly. - Do you see him often or not?
I see him about three times a month.
- 3 times a month? - 3 times a month?
Yes. He stays in the living room for about five minutes on weekends.
I saw him in the living room three times a month.
I see.
However, it's a little uncomfortable...
A family shares thing like a nail clipper, right?
But when my brother goes into his room with it and locks the door,
- or when he... - That must be so uncomfortable.
- It's a very realistic problem. - That's right.
- It's a very realistic problem. - I can't use it...
- It's not there when he needs it. - It's uncomfortable.
- Have you bitten off your nails? - Also, he...
- "I'll use my teeth instead." - What else?
He has rhinitis, so he often makes me go out to get him medicine.
He makes me run small errands...
- about 3 or 4 times a week. - I see.
- But the pharmacy was closed. - Oh, no.
So I had to walk halfway around the neighborhood...
- to buy medicine for him. - "I had to walk halfway around..."
But he didn't come out of his room, so I left it in front of the door.
He couldn't give it to him directly, so he left it at the door.
His brother makes him run his errands three times a week,
- but he sees him 3 times a month. - 3 times a month.
"Just leave it at the door."
So he always leaves whatever he bought for him at the door.
- You can say, "Buy it yourself." - Exactly.
"I'm busy. And I have to go to the academy."
- When I was younger, - He was good to you?
My brother was a little scary before he was good to me.
When I lied or did anything wrong,
he hit me on my hands or hips.
I was afraid of my brother more than my dad.
It's hard to shake the feeling...
- Right. - you have since you were little.
Not long ago, I met a friend from school.
He was a tough boy when we went to school.
He was reaching out for something,
and I raised my guard even before I knew.
(It was a reflex.)
- You get traumatized. - That's right.
- It's natural. - Exactly.
He says he can't see his friends as they're serving in the military.
However, his close friend is here.
Let's ask how his friends think of him.
I went to the same high school and am going to the same college as him.
Hello. I'm Yoo Seung Hoon.
He must be a very close friend.
How long has it been since you last saw him? Hasn't it been a while?
Say hi to him.
He used to be your close friend. Say hi to him.
Say hi to him.
It's awkward between them.
They don't hit it off well.
- They hasn't met up for a while. - I think so too.
It's awkward between them.
I want to know how his school life is. He failed in three subjects.
To put it briefly, it's a complete mess.
(It's a complete mess!)
Because he couldn't come to the morning classes,
we all changed our class schedules so he could come to school at 3pm.
- Oh, my. - But he still won't attend school.
I'd understand if he just ditches his classes,
but when I asked him to meet up with me and another friend...
- who was on military leave... - He should meet you guys.
And have a meal with us. But he said he had something to take care of,
and then he left early. I thought it was understandable...
and kept talking to my friends, but I received a notification.
(He got a mysterious notification.)
- His internet broadcast. - It said his broadcast had begun.
I got notifications because I'm a subscriber of his broadcast.
So we felt like we had been stabbed in the back.
(How could you do that even to your friends?)
You must have...
- watched his broadcast. - Yes, I did.
What do you honestly think of it?
To be perfectly honest,
(He's getting his hopes up.)
It's really boring.
- I watch it because he's my friend. - Oh, no.
But it's not interesting at all. In fact,
when he plays a video game,
and he receives donations from the viewers,
he says, "Username, thank you for donating 30 dollars."
Even if he gets 50 dollars, all he says is, "Thank you very much."
That's it.
People who look like him...
- tend to be boring. - That's right.
If he's funny too when he has such a handsome face,
how should people like us make a living?
(Right!)
Ma'am, have you ever made any efforts to help him actively?
He must be trying to increase...
- subscribers, right? - He must be sensitive about it.
- "I think it'd be great..." - You made suggestions.
I made suggestions too.
But he said, "If you say things like that, it only stresses me out."
He responded very defensively.
Having low views and subscribers,
I'm the one who gets stressed out the most.
My mom usually says, "You didn't get many views today."
"You don't seem to get more subscribers."
- Ma'am, you shouldn't say that. - Since she says such things,
I get stressed out rather than feeling supported.
Since my parents have high expectations of me,
even when I do something well, they don't seem surprised...
as if it's normal for me. However, as for my brother,
they praise him regardless of the results.
They rarely praise me.
You must be said because they rarely praise you.
My younger son thinks his brother is better than him.
He's always discouraged.
So we tried to praise him more often.
Meanwhile, our eldest son has always been doing well-winning awards.
- You took it for granted. - Yes. We took it for granted.
- We praised him less often. - I fully understand you.
Since we have high expectations of him, and his dad...
- is a public official, - I see.
- we wanted him to become... - But when he was a little child...
- a judge or a prosecutor. - I see.
- A judge or a prosecutor? - We think he's smart enough...
to get admitted to a law school and complete the course.
He is very smart.
He has no phone numbers saved on his phone.
He didn't even save the numbers of his mom or brother.
- No way. - I asked if he even used his phone.
- He memorized all the numbers. - He memorized their numbers?
(He memorized all the numbers!)
- He can memorize phone numbers... - Really?
- It's quite unusual these days. - So...
One day, I borrowed another friend's phone to call him.
And he remembered whose number it was.
- I realized how smart he is. - Oh, my.
- But he... - He's really smart.
(It's a shame because he's so smart.)
I still remember what happened.
My mom made me learn math when I was in kindergarten.
I threw a tantrum saying I didn't want to learn it.
My dad threw the book saying, "Then don't do it."
Since I was a little child,
- I've been afraid of my dad. - He's traumatized.
Until I became an adult, even when he didn't say harsh things,
whenever he spoke to me, it made me cry.
(His parents' expectations have always put pressure on him.)
Is your husband strict with him just as he said?
He's been using his computer for too long.
Sometimes, my husband says he wants to smash the computer.
- He says he wants to destroy it. - I think he would actually do it.
That's right. So I always mediate between them.
I have to comfort both my son and my husband.
- You must be stressed out. - Yes, I am.
- It's stressful. - You must be stressed out.
- You're in between the two men. - Yes.
- You're stressed out, right? - Yes.
Actually, I'm starting to show symptoms of menopause.
I can feel the changes of my body.
I want my family to understand me...
- Right. - and pay more attention to me.
But my husband rarely eats dinner at home.
And my eldest son eats while playing with his computer.
- So I eat alone... - You must be lonely.
Very often.
- A daughter can understand it. - Oh, gosh.
But she has two sons. She's the only woman in her family.
I'm sure they don't know much about menopause.
That's right. I told my eldest son, "I think I've reached menopause."
"Find some information about it for me, please."
He said, "Mom, don't say that you're in menopause."
- Why? - "If you keep talking about it,"
"you could actually reach menopause."
He told me to ignore the symptoms.
(Her son didn't care much as if it was someone else's problem.)
My husband reacted the same way.
"He's right. If you worry about it, you might get worse."
- "So try to forget about it." - You must've been so sad.
(She was serious, but her family members didn't care.)
(All men are the same.)
- He's smart, - Your younger son...
- but he's not very understanding. - seems attentive.
- I think he'd understand you. - He doesn't understand what it is.
- Oh, right. - Have you talked to him?
My younger son is sweet...
- and attentive. - He's attentive.
- So... - Her younger son, grab the mic.
My mom had a lot of pain...
in her shoulders and neck.
- She's cried because of that. - Oh, gosh.
- Oh, my. - How did it make you feel?
I felt sad.
- It must've broken his heart. - Did you give her a massage?
- I watched her from a distance. - He's sweet.
(I watched her from a distance.)
You watched her from a distance?
- I thought he comforted her. - Daughters usually...
- massage their mothers... - "She seems to be distressed."
- when their mothers are in pain. - "I feel bad for my mom."
How do you think she must feel when she eats alone?
Her eldest son won't come out of his room,
and her younger son only watches her from a distance.
How...
- Right. - With a tired look on his face.
- My goodness. - Looking tired, he says, "Mom..."
Your second son saw you cry.
Why did you cry, ma'am?
I cried because no one in my family understood me,
and I kept eating by myself.
- Nothing seemed to change. - Oh, no.
So one day, I felt depressed.
Of course.
(Her son is too indifferent.)
- Did you know she cried alone? - He may have seen her crying.
- Have you ever seen her crying? - I have never seen her crying.
- I'm sure he was in his room. - Did you just find out here?
Yes.
- It must've broken his heart. - He was too busy.
He was too busy.
(She needs her family's love and attention.)
Before we wrap it up,
ma'am, tell your son what you want him to do.
First of all, I want you to spend less time playing games,
at least 3 or 4 hours shorter than now.
I want you to spend the time...
on your personal development.
I also want you to eat with your family on weekends,
and finish your military duty,
so you can become a reliable, brave son.
- Oh, my. - That was great.
- Do you think you can do that? - I hope he will.
- Be honest with us. - It won't be easy to do right away,
but since I realized how my mom really feels,
I'll spend less time playing games.
- When will you do that? - When?
- You should start right now. - You should do it now.
In 2025?
I hope she'll support me...
until the end of this year.
(Can I trust you?)
Your mother knows that the time passes quickly...
around your age because she was once your age.
It's a waste to stay in your room all the time.
You should be experiencing many things.
If you want to win the heart of someone you love,
you should first win your mother's heart.
Right.
If you can't win her heart,
you won't be able to win the heart of any women.
She's right.
(Yeong Ja is the best.)
- Yes. - She's right.
The second son, don't just watch her from a distance...
when your mother cries.
You should narrow the distance.
Get a tissue and wipe her tears. And massage her.
Okay, darling?
- He's cute. - Cheer up, son.
Let's start with Hyun Chul.
I'll say it's a worry.
You shouldn't delay being a good son.
There will come a time when you regret what you did.
I think this will be an opportunity for you to be better.
I think it's a worry.
I think she should have faith in her son.
If you have ambition,
you should take in your friends' advice...
and try to become a great creator.
Or maybe you should try making good memories...
while you're still in your 20s...
and then think about your future a little later.
- You should find the balance. - He's right.
I think it's a worry.
If you think from the mother's point of view,
and if you think it's a worry for her,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
(Please send us your worries about yourself, family, and friends.)
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
Let's see how many votes she got.
"A Sleep Stealer". Please show us the result.
Is it over 100?
- What is it? 128. - That's a lot.
128 votes.
(128 votes)
It's titled "Let's Stop".
Hello.
I am a housewife in my 30s who's worried about my husband.
When my husband finished work,
he comes right...
on time.
(He comes home right on time.)
"Honey, I'm home."
"Bring me drinks."
He's an alcoholic who has to drink every day.
If he wants to drink, he should drink nicely.
"I am done drinking."
(He's drunk.)
Hurry and clean up.
- My goodness. - Wait. Let me do this first.
"I will divorce you!"
"Get out of this house."
Whenever he drinks, he behaves very badly.
But come the next day...
"Did you mean what you said last night?"
"Don't you think you were being too harsh?"
"Why are you so upset?"
(You are acting very strangely, honey.)
"I don't remember anything."
I am sick of putting up with his bad habits every night.
Even this happens on days when he doesn't have work.
"What are you doing?" Wait. It's a girl.
"What..."
(Laughing)
"What are you doing? Are you drinking?"
"It's 8am right now."
"But I ran out of drinks."
"Go buy some drinks."
"Hurry up."
As if making me go buy his drinks wasn't enough,
he starts drinking in the morning. He sleeps, gets up, and drinks.
It goes on until the evening, and he drinks over five bottles.
But this is only the tip of the iceberg.
Please fix my husband's bad habits.
(Stop drinking, alcoholic husband, )
Let's bring in the lady who's worried about her drinking husband.
Please come on out.
(Who's worried about her husband who drinks every day?)
(Park Sun Young)
It sounds like he drinks every day. Is it true?
Yes. He drinks every day.
- 1 bottle is a given. - 1 bottle is a given.
He would drink up to five bottles.
On days when he doesn't work, he asks for drinks when he wakes up.
In the morning.
Do you always fix food he can eat while drinking?
Yes. When he asks for drinks, I take him the drinks.
I have to fix him snacks. I find him snacks.
He only drinks. You are the one...
- cleaning up. - I clean up everything.
- You put up with his bad habits. - You do.
Does he do anything stupid when he's drunk?
We live on the fifth floor. He tries to open every door,
starting from the first floor.
- He does that when he's drunk. - Yes.
- Does he try every door? - Yes. He presses the passcode.
He once lost a 3,000-dollar wristwatch.
He lost a 3,000-dollar wristwatch?
He left his wallet in the car,
and he lost 1,000 dollars.
- My goodness. - He lost his watch.
- What else did he do? - Being goofy,
he bit me. He bit...
the dog too hard, and he screamed.
He never does that, but he did when he got bitten.
He bit the dog while being drunk?
- Yes. - He bit me and the dog.
So he became the dog.
The dog must've been very flustered.
(He became the dog.)
- This... - He's got an aggressive habit.
Yes. Very aggressive.
By the way, there are...
about 200 people here,
and there's someone who obviously looks like a drinker.
- Right. - Yes.
I can tell who he is.
He's the husband. Hello.
(Who's her drinker husband who drinks 5 bottles a day?)
Your wife even wants to report you to the police.
Can you understand her?
I can never understand it.
It's not like it's causing problems.
I just drink quietly and sleep at home.
(I just drink quietly and sleeps at home.)
- You don't sleep quietly. - You don't sleep quietly.
You don't sleep quietly.
- You bite. - You behave badly.
- You bite. - That's not it.
She exaggerated it a lot.
How much do you think you drink?
I start with 1 to 2 bottles.
Around 10pm, I drink a 500ml can of beer.
When I drink a lot, I drink 5 to 6.
- Canned beer? - No. Soju.
It's bad enough to drink every day.
But you ask her to fix you snacks too.
Don't you think it's too much for your wife?
That's why I married her.
(That's why he married her.)
- Is he from Joseon? - You married her to fix you drinks?
- Everyone. - He's making everyone furious.
- My goodness. - He makes her fix him drinks.
I can hear the sound of viewer rating going up.
I am excited.
I am telling you this because...
You surely didn't marry her to make her fix you drinks and food.
My wife stays home. She doesn't work.
If she was working too...
How about the house chores?
Then I would fix it myself.
It's only right that she does it for me.
(He thinks she has to do it for him.)
Wait. I think we have to do...
a three-week special on him.
My gosh. We've met many people with drinking problems.
- But there was nobody... - He's the most shameless one.
As shameless as him.
Even when you go to a bar,
they fix you drinks and food.
So it's only right that my wife fixes me drinks and food too.
My gosh. You pay them. Do you pay her?
I give her a monthly payment.
Do you not have a child?
- We have a son. - Kids learn from you.
First of all,
everyone seems upset.
- It's upsetting. - Calm down.
- Take it slow. - I want to fight him.
I really want to ask you.
- I am speechless. - It's just...
that we are upset.
Will you not make her do that if she works too?
I would fix it for myself.
You don't even have to go outside to make money.
- Right. - Make a game YouTube channel.
- Yes. - Yes.
Be a YouTuber.
- Yes. - Shoot vlogs.
(What do you think of me?)
Can't you go out and buy your own drinks?
When a man goes outside in the daytime, rumors spread.
- That's why I make her go. - Is it okay for her then?
My wife is suffering from...
severe diabetes.
I send her out so that she will work out..
While going up and down five floors.
You are a bad man.
You send her out to buy you drinks so that she can work out?
(They can't believe what they heard.)
First of all, he's got the mindset of a Joseon man.
She goes out to buy her drunk husband drinks.
Wouldn't that create even worse rumors?
I didn't know there was a man like him.
(Well done, Dae Hwi!)
(He doesn't say anything.)
Do you never think about drinking less?
- I know. - No. Never.
My goodness.
Why are you so confident?
- It's because I am in construction. - I think he might have a reason.
I go to work very early in the morning.
After working hard,
drinking soju with dinner...
is my way of distressing.
That's understandable.
That's my only joy in life.
We are not trying to stop you from doing that.
- You drink too much. - You should drink moderately.
We have two dogs at home.
When I come home from work,
the two dogs run to greet me.
My son play a game inside his room.
My wife bluntly greets me.
So even when I go home,
nothing makes me happy.
I am only welcomed by the dogs.
- I thought he bit them because... - What do you have to say?
He says nobody welcomes him, and that's why he drinks more.
- That's what he's saying. - I welcome him too.
Come here, honey. Hug me.
He says, "Move."
When I come home from work,
I am covered in cement powder.
It's hard for me to hug her in that state.
- But I still want to be hugged. - So I tell her to move.
We should ask about their son.
How's your son?
He's always sullen because he's going through adolescence.
He eats alone...
because he doesn't want to see his dad drinking.
He tells his dad not to drink or smoke.
- Where? - He smokes.
He smokes in the living room.
- He smokes at home? - Now?
You can't...
(Is this true?)
- Inside the house? - He smokes inside the house?
Yes. I think he smokes 2 to 3 cigarettes every 10 minutes.
- That's another worry. - He does that now?
I think he smokes about two packs a day.
Of course, it's a common area. It's a common area, but...
(What is he...)
(going to say this time?)
The house is registered under my name anyway.
(The house is registered under his name.)
(It's crazy.)
Oh, my gosh.
- My wife... - This is...
- is... - This is not funny.
On the ship called my family, and she's a crew member.
I am the captain, so she should follow my rules.
This is why he doesn't drink outside.
- All right. - Should we vote now?
No, no.
I think he will get about 200 votes.
Let's press the button.
If you want to keep watching this man,
please catch the next episode.
I think we should end today's episode here.
He's got so many problems.
Even in restaurants, you can't smoke inside nowadays.
What's the reason you insist on smoking inside the house?
Is it because the house is registered under your name?
Honestly, I want to...
- smoke in the veranda too. But... - But?
Recently, I did a meat barbecue using charcoals.
After that, the floor became oily.
- Right. - It's not a relic.
It's not a heritage site.
She just left it there for days.
I couldn't dare to go there because it was so filthy.
(The cracks turned black because of the oil.)
- That's why you couldn't go there? - It's gone now.
How long did it take for you to clean it?
It took a while.
You must've been busy.
- Did you forget? - She forgot.
You could've cleaned up the relic if it was that dirty.
I was too tired after work. How could I clean it?
(My gosh.)
- My gosh. - Tell your husband...
to do the house chores.
You should just go outside and work. That would be better.
- I... - You take so much credit.
Honestly, this is what I am thinking.
I wonder what she does at home...
for 24 hours.
- I wanted to send a letter. - He's got the complete package.
- By the way, - My head suddenly hurts.
Why are you so unhappy? Tell us.
She's not good at cooking.
She once cooked kimchi jjigae.
She knew it was bland.
She kept telling me to save it. I am no doctor.
She asked me to do CPR on it.
- A CPR. - So I saved it.
She always cooks only one side dish.
My son is in the third year of middle school.
He's at the age where he needs to be fed well.
She only feeds him one dish.
That upsets me.
He would eat it once and say, "It's salty."
He doesn't eat it again.
That's why you only cook one dish at a time.
Rice and one other thing.
When I cook tteokgalbi or sausage,
I give it to him with a fried egg.
But what's more frustrating is this.
When she keeps food in the fridge,
she keeps it unsealed for days.
When something goes past its expiry date,
she can just throw it away.
I think 1 to 2 days past the date is fine.
I've eaten the one that was 3 to 4 days past the date.
I was fine. That's why I didn't throw them away.
He says you keep the food in the fridge unsealed.
I put it in a plastic bag. It's not sealed tightly, but it's sealed.
- You keep it in a plastic bag. - Yes.
(Is that something that upsetting?)
It seems like her husband is unhappy with her.
- It seems like it. - With her housekeeping skills.
How often do you clean? What's your cleaning pattern?
I vacuum the house every day.
I mop the floor once every two days.
That's good enough.
I do all the cleaning and the laundries.
I wash, hang, and fold the laundries.
- She does everything. - I do.
So what's wrong?
When you raise dogs,
you have to clean the house often.
Even when you do, it still smells.
She says she vacuumed the house. So I say okay.
But my feet are black.
What's the point? He scatters cigarette ashes everywhere.
- Cigarette ashes. - He just blows them.
It's all over the pillows.
(That's horrible.)
Even the wallpapers must get stained.
- Yes, they are. - They must smell.
You are the one smoking. Does your wife have to clean after you?
She can just clean it when she cleans the house.
But I need to clean again before going to bed.
- He's the worst ever. - Do I have to clean all day?
If you wipe the room once before bed, it's clean.
It feels clean.
But even before you go to work, you scatter ashes everywhere.
So you should...
Just keep talking.
It's not like...
Right. There's nothing we can say.
I think it's not my place to meddle.
Do I have to follow you around with a mop?
It's not like you do it anyway. I don't always do it either.
- You are telling me to do it. - I sometimes clean too.
When did you ever clean? When it falls, you blow it.
You just brush it off. That's all you do.
Do you admit that you are patriarchal?
Yes. I admit it.
Since I was little, my mother raised me this way.
She said my private part would fall off if I go inside the kitchen.
(It's hard to transcribe his words.)
(She loses her mind.)
She always said, "How can a woman..."
"dare to disobey a man?"
She said a woman shouldn't even go over a man's dirty clothes.
- That's... - She's not supposed to...
go over her husband's dirty clothes.
(That's how I was raised.)
This is more like a quarrel,
but have you gotten into a very serious fight?
While eating... While he was drinking.
- While he was drinking and eating. - Eating and drinking.
While he was drinking and eating,
he said we should get divorced, and he asked me to move out.
- He asked you to move out. - He asked to use separate rooms.
So we did.
But the next day, he woke up and asked why I was in the other room.
("Why are you sleeping here, honey?")
- It was the alcohol talking. - My goodness.
Did you not remember it, or did you pretend not to remember it?
That's not it.
I said I made a mistake and said I was sorry.
I noticed this.
When he raises his hand to speak, his hand trembles.
Yes. I think that's a sign of alcohol addiction.
Today is his day-off, but he didn't get to drink.
- He was supposed to be drinking. - Yes.
When he doesn't drink, his hand trembles.
- Yes. - He's a hepatitis carrier.
- My goodness. - He's a hepatitis carrier?
And he drinks that much?
- What else? - He's got gastritis too.
- Gastritis. - He retch in the morning too.
- He must drink a lot. - Oh, my.
His health is in bad condition.
What is tormenting you so much to make you drink?
You should ask him. Only then he will give you the answer.
No. No.
You were talking like an old lady.
(I was frustrated.)
(He shouldn't be drinking with such health condition.)
What do you think about your health?
I was told that I was born as a hepatitis carrier.
- So you should be careful. - Shouldn't you be careful?
- You should take good care of... - But...
that's what doctors always say.
(He doesn't realize how serious his condition is.)
(How can you ignore such advice?)
But I can't understand why my wife is worried about that.
- Of course, she would worry. - Health is the most important.
- She's your wife. - She has to be worried.
If she's truly worried about me, honestly,
she should fix me a healthy meal.
She only worries. She never does anything like that.
She's suffering from severe diabetes.
- Her blood sugar level exceeds 400. - That's too high.
She drinks soda and eats chips. She doesn't care about her diet.
Who is she to tell me what to do?
Have you done anything for her since she is...
suffering from severe diabetes?
Yes. I heard some herbs are good for diabetes.
So I bought a 100-dollar worth of herbs.
He said it earlier.
He makes her go buy drinks for him.
For her health. He's making her work out.
Since she has diabetes, you make her go buy drinks for you.
That's your way of making her exercise.
- That's... - You nag at her.
Wouldn't those things worsen her condition?
But she gives me a lot of stress too.
Both of you are like little children,
- You blame each other. - When it comes to being immature,
my wife is even worse than me.
- What's the point of talking... - They don't admit.
About who is more immature?
They both don't admit their faults.
If your blood sugar level is 400, it's very serious.
Isn't cigarette smoke really bad for you too?
I lived my whole life with cigarette smoke.
- All life? - My husband wasn't the only one.
My grandfather, my father, and my mother...
- all smoked. - My goodness.
- Even your parents smoked? - Yes.
My father passed away when I was in middle school.
He used to drink and smoke like my husband.
He died of a heart attack.
He had a heart attack.
When he didn't drink, he was a sweet husband.
But whenever he drank,
- he hit my mother. - My gosh.
- She must be so scared. - He's just like my father.
It must be like as if her father returned from his grave.
Have you...
known about this story?
Yes. I knew it well.
I knew that my father-in-law used to hit my mother-in-law.
My father used to be like that too.
My father drank too much, and he died of liver cancer.
- My gosh. - My gosh.
- That's why... - He's double-sided.
I hated that.
So I thought I wouldn't be like him when I grow up.
But when I grew up, I became like him.
- You become like your parent. - He admits it.
Are you just accepting it as your fate...
and repeating his mistakes?
Actually, they weren't my real parents.
I was raised by my aunt and uncle.
I never saw my father.
My father passed away five days before I was born.
That's why my uncle hated me.
He said I killed my father.
He called me the boy who killed his father.
- That's why... - That's why...
I should've experienced being loved to know how to express love.
I know about my bad habit that my wife said earlier.
But I don't know how to express my love.
- But... - I was expressing my love.
Even after hearing everything,
it's hard to understand why you behaved the way you did.
You are hurting too many people.
I think your experience would make you want to...
be different and embrace...
your family with love.
(It's awkward.)
Did something happen that made you drink so much?
This is my second marriage.
My ex-wife cheated on me.
It's hard to trust someone.
Then your son is...
He's the child I had with my ex-wife.
He's from your first wife.
She doesn't have a child of her own.
I got depressed, and I couldn't sleep.
That's why I started relying on alcohol.
I forgot about my ex-wife now.
But the habit remained.
I can understand that.
But what has your current wife done wrong...
to deserve putting up with your bad habit?
How would she feel watching you go through that?
Don't you think it's such a brutal thing to do to her?
- It must be tough. - Right?
I understand it perfectly. But the only thing...
that helped me go through it was alcohol.
- Habit is... - My gosh.
I wanted to find a solution.
(To be happy, you need to fix your habit.)
Have you asked each other what you want to hear from each other?
When I drank with my wife,
I call my son too.
I said, "Let's have a conversation."
But the two of them refused.
You shouldn't ask to have a conversation while you drink.
As someone who is older than you, I would like to tell you this.
If everyone said, "I can't express myself well..."
"because I have never learned it,"
mankind would have disappeared by now.
Tae Gyun was so young when his father passed away...
that he barely remembers the man.
Nevertheless, he diligently plays with his children.
I want to do that,
but the distance between us is too great now.
- My son won't accept me. - That's not true.
It's not too late if you are having that thought.
(It's time to make an effort, not excuses.)
Why don't you tell us what kind of a conversation...
you wanted to have?
There is nothing else I want.
My wife isn't very healthy,
so I want her to watch what she eats.
I met her in my 40s.
I only have half a lifetime with her.
I want to enjoy it with her.
- Then your health is crucial. - Then what can you do...
for your wife?
Your wife wants you to drink less...
and stop smoking at home.
If she changes first, I will think about it.
You could change first.
- Why should she do it first? - You should change with her.
(Is he even willing to improve?)
- You should change with her. - Why don't you begin first?
I lost my faith in her.
If she restores my faith,
- I will change. - Okay.
He wants you to change, too.
- You consume snacks and soft drink. - You shouldn't do that.
I don't consume them as much as I used to.
That's...
(Communication is impossible.)
(Will there be no happy ending between the two of them?)
Sun Young, you need to come to your senses.
The biggest victim in this household you should worry about...
- is your son. - That's right.
The two of you made a choice, didn't you?
- That's right. - You made a choice.
That boy chose neither his dad...
nor his mom.
He must be suffering a lot.
Think about that.
(Have you thought about your son's suffering?)
For your son, you need to take responsibility...
- for the choice you made. - That's right.
Ma'am, you should cook and clean the house.
Sir, you should smoke in the veranda or something.
You say your father never taught you how to give love.
Did he teach you to drink that much?
He didn't teach you to drink that much.
(Stop making excuses.)
(My son)
You chose each other to be happy.
Once you lose your health,
no amount of regrets will reverse it.
I tried to suppress my feelings as I heard the story, but...
When I wanted to give back to my parents, they became sick.
If you want to receive love...
from your wife and son,
you need to stay healthy.
I want to tell you that.
- All right. - Right.
(If he continues to drink and smoke as he have, )
(he will lose his health...)
(as well as the time to share memories with his family.)
If you don't want to change for your wife,
can't you change for your son and your household?
(Does he have an intention to change for himself and his family...)
(so that he doesn't regret this day?)
I will try.
(You made the right choice.)
Your heart aches when you think about your wife and son, right?
- Yes. - You say you will try...
because you made up your mind to drink less, right?
Yes.
(He finally saw how much his family is hurting.)
You are my partner in life.
Until the day I die,
I want to continue life's journey with you. I love you.
(I love you.)
(Please keep your promise.)
Please say a few words to your son who must be watching this show.
I will drink less now.
Let's go fishing when I have a day off.
I love you, my son.
(I love you, my son.)
He says it nonchalantly.
All right.
(We hope they become a healthy and happy family.)
Hyun Chul, please go first.
It's a worry.
It's a really big worry, so I will press the button.
I hope they live happily together.
- They need to be healthy. - That's right.
My father passed away when I was seven years old...
- due to liver cirrhosis. - My goodness.
It seems like your son is close to my age.
If your health worsens and something bad happens,
your wife and son will lead a very difficult life.
I think he has a predetermined idea...
of how a wife should be.
Since she falls short of it, he gets dissatisfied...
and alleviates his stress by drinking and smoking.
Unless you fix this problem,
you won't be able to move forward.
I hope you would love your wife as she is.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
Did you hear that sound?
Show us the result.
(The result)
(The last digit is 0.)
(Did the worry get 200 votes?)
No way.
Did the worry get 200 votes? Gosh, I was shocked for a second.
Out of 200 votes, how many votes did the worry get?
- 170 votes. - My goodness.
No way.
(That's impressive.)
This week, "Let's Stop" wins.
We will give the winner the prize money. Congratulations.
Until the day we are all worry-free,
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you. - Goodbye.